Section 5 – What if one of you is much better with the figures?
This is a very common concern voiced by many but also easily overcome with the help of a skilled mediator and carefully managed process.
This is a very common concern voiced by many but also easily overcome with the help of a skilled mediator and carefully managed process.
Financial experts, such as Accountants, Pension Actuaries and Financial Advisers can play a vital role in supporting you to find sensible, fair and realistic solutions, in mediation. Where do your solicitors fit into this part of mediation?
Once you are clear about what you need for yourself and how you might ask for this from the other person(s), in mediation, you are likely to feel better equipped to imagine and explore which unmet needs/values might be driving the other person’s behaviour and what they might need from you.
What do you believe is preventing you both achieving these things, the things of most importance to each of you ie your perceived barriers to resolution?
The mediator will not place any pressure on you to choose mediation if you decide that it is not suitable for you. All the mediator will expect is honesty and openness about your views and reasons for your decisions.
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